After reading a few of your newer posts Shawn I kind of get the impression that you're letting your W walk all over you. That may not be the case but certain things you said made it seem that way to me. Another book I would recommend you read is 'No More Mr Nice Guy' by Dr Robert glover. There are certain aspects of it that helped me. They also have a support site if you want to look it up. I found it to be a bit more harsh than this one though and a lot less sympathetic. If you go there, be prepared for some serious 2x4's being thrown at you from all directions. Sometimes that's what a person needs though. It all depends what stage they are at with their sitch.
Good luck though. Keep coming here when you need support.
Me: 32, Wife: 22 Son: 2 Married: 2 years Separated: January 5th 2009
Sometimes you have to become lost before you can find yourself.
