I am not taking you less seriously because of what you did. Two wrongs don't make a right though. You will both have issues from what has happened.
To be honest, I don't know which is more 'wrong' - getting together with someone because you have feelings or just doing it to even out the score. I almost think what you did was worse as there doesn't seem to be a whole lot of feeling behind it. How did it make you feel? Have you talked to your W much about what you did? I imagine she has issues to deal with on that score as well. Maybe she doesn't want to talk about it as she things what you did makes you on a level footing and you both just need to move forward from this point.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
