I believe that she certainly needs to see a doctor about her mental and emotional state. What did she mean she did not want to hurt her baby?
I wish you had some of those things documented. As you said, you've been through this before and know what to expect. Hope you get a shark lawyer. It's not that I want to see her hurt, but thinking of the baby more than anything.
When reality hits her, it is going to be bad and she will either hit rock bottom or find another man. I doubt if the neighbor guy will have her if he is with his parents and can't even support himself. That will be her first wake-up call. If you get the daughter, that might be another reality check for her....I hope so. Wished her mother could talk her into seeing a professional, but if she has her fooled, then she probably can't see it.
Anyway, try to still come here and vent, if nothing else b/c it does seem to help to have people listen to your problems and there are a lot of people here that have been through what you are dealing with.
Take care and I'll check on you tomorrow. Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
