Well, I had five days of NC but it was easy because xBF was out of town. Today he texted that he wanted to come over tonight to visit with me and the cats. Honestly, I was a little surprised to hear from him but knew to expect something from reading others' threads.

I think I have detached almost completely because I have absolutely no desire to see him. I waited a few hours to respond, then said I already had plans (tonight was dance classes!). Less than five minutes later he texted back to ask about some time this weekend. Whatever. Didn't respond, may send him an email tomorrow because there are financial matters that need to be discussed soon.

I know most people here are detaching through NC, but I think I'm doing pretty well with minimal contact. I suspect I am truly over it because I'm just ready to move on.

If you love somebody, set them free.
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