P.S. I live in Alabama which allows Adultery as grounds for divorce. Under our state law however, Adultery is defined as sexual intercourse + cohabitation with another. I just had a one-night stand. Also the physical/mental cruelty is just a b.s. tactic for her to claim custody. I basically work 40 hours per week, and then go to classes at night. Wasn't home enough to be cruel.
Either way... I can't stop the divorce, but I'm not going to let her play on that playing field. She can talk a lot - but she's got to prove her case, and she has no evidence.
Me on the other hand... I may counter-file using the emotional affair as mental cruelty and anguish. So much for divorce busting...
"You can't reason someone out of a position they didn't reason themselves into."