TRUSTINGS NEW BEGINNINGS

[cagzmom]

25yrs.. that is really good insight. Sad still - the truth of all of this.. But good. i believe too that often the WAS doesn't see what they have lost - reach bottom - whatever until the saftey net is gone. i am not saying dont stand. i am saying move on for real.

That is a very hard part. Learning it ... i hope some day i get to reconnect with the man who is my xh. i hope some day that he and i get to give it another try. BUT i also know that i can't sit and wait for him to "hit bottom....it isn't good for him - or me.