Yoyo, I know you must be getting tired of waiting. He needs to be pushed onto your side of the fence. In Divorce Remedy it talks about doing a 180 and going dark but you have to be prepared to follow through. I think as long as H knows he can have you, OW, OW as secretary -- it could go on and on and on and on with no end in site.
After awhile of this waiting it can become detrimental to yourself and you might find yourself starting to hate H. You want to preserve the love you still have for him and have him realize what he might be losing.
I am praying for you.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
HAVE YOU EVER BEEN GUILTY OF LOOKING AT OTHERS YOUR OWN AGE AND THINKING, SURELY I CAN'T LOOK THAT OLD. WELL....
MY NAME IS ALICE SMITH AND I WAS SITTING IN THE WAITING ROOM FOR MY FIRST APPOINTMENT WITH A NEW DENTIST. I NOTICED HIS DDS DIPLOMA, WHICH BORE HIS FULL NAME.
SUDDENLY, I REMEMBERED A TALL, HANDSOME, DARK-HAIRED BOY WITH THE SAME NAME HAD BEEN IN MY HIGH SCHOOL CLASS SOME 30-ODD YEARS AGO. COULD HE BE THE SAME GUY THAT I HAD A SECRET CRUSH ON, WAY BACK THEN?
UPON SEEING HIM, HOWEVER, I QUICKLY DISCARDED ANY SUCH THOUGHT. THIS BALDING, GRAY-HAIRED MAN WITH THE DEEPLY LINED FACE WAS WAY TOO OLD TO HAVE BEEN MY CLASSMATE.
AFTER HE EXAMINED MY TEETH, I ASKED HIM IF HE HAD ATTENDED MORGAN PARK HIGH SCHOOL
'YES. YES, I DID. I'M A MUSTANG,' HE GLEAMED WITH PRIDE.
Gosh, I'm so sorry that I haven't been on for support lately. You sound good now though.
About Kurt Warner's wife. It was her there...with the long blonde hair. I believe when she had the short hair, she had just gone through a bout with cancer. She looks much different, but it's the same woman. I've read articles about how strong his love is for her. How nice that must feel! I saw an interview with Larry Fitzgerald's dad last night (receiver for AZ). His mom passed away a few years ago. His dad started crying and said that he chokes up each time he thinks of her. Larry gives him a hard time and his dad's response was.....But Larry, your mother meant everything to me. How lucky people are to have love like that!!
I'll email you tomorrow. I hope you're having a better day.
Sara.....great joke!!
SueS
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day
Hi Everyone, I've been out of town the past two days for a educational conference. I just got home. I about to head to the basketball game to watch DD dance and cheer. I can't wait to see her to tell her the good news. Her acceptance letter came in today from her 1st choice college! She had already been accepted to her 2nd choice, she will be so happy to know she got her first choice! This university happens to be my alma mater, how exciting that now my DD will carry on the tradition!
I just wanted to share some GOOD news for a change!
Hugs, Yoyo
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
Yea!!! Go DD17!! I am so happy for her and you too. Just breezing through while a commercial is on the basketball game. My team isn't playing but I like to watch anyhow. lol
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Yoyo, I am excited for your D. Great news. Glad that in spite of everything going on she is exceling. You have done a great job as a Mom and also to fill in for the Walkaway father.
What a shame he has missed that time at home for her last couple of years. You will always have those great memories.
We love great news.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
Well done to your D , getting in to the college she wanted. My D has also done the same and as long as she gets the grades she also will be going to the college my H and I went to....it's kind of weird - LOL
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
