Jack, you are getting sucked in...again...it's minutia...and you've been here before...for a long time. Ever make any real or lasting diff? ( j )
Ok 25, what do you suggest?
1) Kick her to the curb because she still 'talks' to 'Michael' while living with me as per Jack and others?
2) Be appreciative that she is here, being mom, helping with the house and the finances as per You and others?
Instead you discount that as 'minutia'. I dunno, I think it's a pretty difficult decision, don't you?
And I'm sitting here doing my best to do what I think is right, given the personality I'm dealing with.
But "minutia"? "Doesn't want to be saved?"
I think not. I fully expect to prevail and get life on track and more fun. That's a hell of a lot better attitude than I had a week ago. I am the guy who solves hard problems. I save myself, thank you. DESPITE todays issues I am still in a good mood.
