Ah Michelle, LOL - so right you are about bosting pics of me bum on facebook!!! But ... I'm just not that riskeeee ... although it would be a 180!!! \:\) LOL - thanks for the laugh!!!!

Ali, Yes, my H did actually thank me for sorting it out. MF1, I've kept in contact for years & he has quite a few friends & likes going out. So that is good & he makes an effort to call me now & again.

Julia, thanks for the pick me up - so right you are!! I have to break out of that mode or mold. It's such a bad one to be stuck in. (Thinking men you get on with have zero interest in you). My bum, surprisingly isn't hurting so much. Yep, my sister told me - to try & not kill myself (via accidents) until after the D!!! \:\) LOL

Me39, XH45
Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats
Divorced 6/4/09
Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)