ya know its kinda starting to sound like no matter what the situation its always the guys fault..... as i have stated my wife doesent seem to think there is a problem i am the one not happy in this relationship...i am the one not being listened to...she has gone through a dramatic change and im not the only one who sees it...ie she got fired from her job for it. everybody starts out with "what are you doing wrong??" and im telling you i have done nothing wrong or different for that matter since we met.. i consider myself a fairly good hubby i help around house. i help with kids . i give her time for herself. i do have a life and a bis outside the house. i bring gifts of affection. i try to show affection although i usually get brushed off till bedtime. though i feel like she does it out of duty anymore.
and i dont follow her around like a puppy either or hound her but i will stand my ground when she attacks...
we tried to get a mediator in between us but that lasted til she told my wife she had to let me finish my own sentences. then as far as my wife was concerned the mod knew nothing and couldnt help cause i didnt know what i was talking about. so if she wanted to listen to me it was pointless
so now if there is something im doing wrong please be more specific as im still lost
