Did you ask your L why your W hasn't done her part of the court order? I don't think any judge would take kindly to being dismissed so to speak.
I would keep doing all the things that you need to and keep touch on the rest of the situation with your L. Perhaps this showing of her will reflect on her through out the proceedings.
kat PS Just so you know you don't need to use the 727 after my name or even the 43 after Karen's. We just are who we are.
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory