Well we had a good talk and I think or hope things are going to get better. I finally told her I have a DB coach and what we've talked about. My W now feels like she needs to speak with my DB coach so she can get help and guidance so we can work on our M. I figured out today that If my W would've stopped associating herself with OM W all together months ago we would be in a lot better place. The fact that OM W calls or wants to visit is a harsh reminder of the hurt I felt months ago. The old theory. Out of sight out of mind. Time heals all wounds.
