I do lose myself and have a good time. I even feel connected once in a while.
But for her... she feels like I just want to use her. If she doesn't want this and gets very little out of it for herself, then why do it at all? We had this discussion not long ago where "I want her to want me."
Her reply was "I do this because I love you H."
It's not that she's can't be a good lover, it's that she doesn't want to be a lover at all anymore and I don't understand why.
Why on earth would anyone ever want to give up something that makes you feel so alive and vibrant? If I hear "we're just getting old and it isn't the same now" one more time I may lose it.
Can you tell I'm just so frustrated with her attitude towards having a beautiful relationship vs. a so-so one?
