karen43 -- yeah, the alcohol issue is there and pretty much insurmountable. I've about decided it is time to just throw in the towel.

On another note, I just got back from the attorney. The other attorney keeps asking me to submit and resubmit bank statements and financial disclosures. Some now this guy has it in his brain that I've got money hidden. So, I respond to all the court papers

Oh the other hand, WW is supposed to come up with 50% of a mortgage payment, get a realtor to put a piece of proper up for sale, and finally, sign off with yet another realtor to sell the house. She doesn't seem to have time to do that. The court ordered it done NLT 23 January. Really nice how one person risks contempt of court charges and the other party does whatever they want, whenever they want.

BS (me) 57
WW (her) 51
M - 27+ years
Sons - 34/21
daugh - 32/26
D-day - (A#1 Apr 98) (A#2 Oct 08)
Status - minimal contact (me)
living with OM (her)
Divorce - Scheduled for Apr 09