Yes - what Lucky said - - remember that YOU can feel the connection even if your partner cannot. Focus on YOU and how you feel, not on how you fear she is just trying to get it over with.

One of the most important things my man has taught me is that, if you are a good lover, then you can have a good sexual experience even with a partner who is not a good lover.

Does that resonate at all? Can you try to read between the lines here?

DQ