heres the thing it is normal to think....I think my spouse is different...they cant do this...they are confused...mlc....and while you know you are getting good advice you still have to try it your way.......i know i did it too.....I could not get my brain around that he would really leave his family....the thing is it may not even be you she is running from in reality...but in her reality it is...the part someone posted about you being the last person they want to tell them about things or point things out or whatever is so true......and its so hard to seperate that in your mind.....anyway if u can really detach...this might go faster for u...but whether the road leads home or a new direction thats the only way ...with out getting demolished.....
