Hey S, just my opinion, but I think your h didnt address those parts because he didnt want to.
Really I dont think you should write him. You are just spinning your wheels and you are not going to get anywhere. He knows how you feel, he knows how he feels.
Writing it is not going to fix it. I think your h is not cooked all the way yet. I think you need to pull back a bit and go a little dim, just my opinion, and really what the heck do I know.