Lucky....Re: being cruel....LOL! I know, and I do apologize. I had a long post a while back called "DQ's sex blog". I gots lots of "you're being cruel" comments back then. But I justify it this way: there IS great sex out there for people who can figure this stuff out. I can be a beacon or lighthouse for some of you! If you go back and read my sex blog (there was also a sex blog #2) you will read that some of my advice really did help others to have some great sex! One of the benefits of having such a great sex life, but comparing it to my SSM, is that I can now identify what works and what doesn't. Also, my fiance is my sexual mentor, and I can pass along things he has learned and has taught me....
For instance, all of the NMMNG books and the other books that urge a man to assert his masculinity, and assure the men that this will actually turn his woman ON not OFF....well I can attest to this, because my ex-h was a nice guy, and my fiance is the quintessential self-assured, sexually confident man. I now know and understand what this picture looks like. And I can feel within my body just "why" this makes me turned on, compared to the nice guy who never turned me on.
Anyway dear....hopefully YOU will soon have stories to share that are cruel to the others around here! LOL!
If you have the time, go back and find my blogs....that is, if you want to blush and possibly have to be all turned on and worked up...hee hee!
