Advice Please...Con't #2

[Bworl]

You don't get the seriousness of the stuff we post you.

You continue pushing, sometimes openly, sometimes from behind the scenes. It's almost as though leaving these books out where she could find them is some kind of passive aggressive action on your part so that she can KNOW you are working hard to save your marriage.

And her response remains the same. Not interested.

And Ral? Keep on her and it will get worse each time. Eventually she will let you know that she hates your guts, never wants to speak to you again, and that she wants you out of the house.

I'm not saying that's what she wants. I'm telling you that if you continue pressuring, directly OR indirectly, her responses to you will escalate in nastiness.


If there is really no OM, that's a good thing. But only if you can stop stepping on your di#k long enough to give her some space and make her believe that you are finally LISTENING to her. She wants to be left alone. She wants space. When are you going to STOP forcing YOUR way into this matter?


This thing is FAR from over. Check in with Jack and ask him what things were looking like just before his wife expressed an interest in working things out.


But you have to STOP tearing down what remains of the positive feelings she might have inside about you and the family.


Damn...


Blessings,

Bill