Sometimes its my life I can't taste

[Sugar and Spice]

and now because he has a child with her, he probably feels like there is no way out

I agree with this quite a bit.

Again, facing yourself in the mirror and making the hard choices and changes is extremely hard to do.

That is something that I am learning, for myself as well as looking at what others choose and why.

I think that allowing oneself to be paralyzed by fear is just so sad and such a waste. I did it for a long time and its one of my biggest regrets. I don't want to spend my life fearful of the what-ifs. Its time to learn from the mistakes I make and to allow myself to make them.

Thanks for all of the insight, I was just wondering and you know how it is, its hard to see the situation from the outside, when you are on the inside.