Since money is an issue I would put it in black and white what it takes to run your household as well as what income there is to offset the expenses. I would guess you are going in the hole every month. Let H see the dilema. It doesn't mean he will do anything different but it does show the situation without dispute. Your H is 'awake' enough to get the facts.
There is a lot in the news in the last week about how much it costs to raise a child. Be thankful you don't have 6 at home and 8 more joining the party!
I am not going in the hole each month but he is. It amazes me that someone with such a responsibility will not do a thing about making money. OW has a computer from what he has told me. You would think he would do something-heck, sell things on ebay for goodness sakes.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
