Wife left tonight

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My W came over to the see the kids and help with the younger ones birthday party. We ordered pizza (which W picked up on her way from OM place) and I baked a cake. W and I watched our favorite TVs shows and got a long fine as we always have done before. I did not talk about R or M or even mention how much I miss and love her. We talked about the terms we are going to use for this separation, which we are going to bring to MC tonight. I think it was an eye opener for W as I have put in a lot effort to come up with these suggestions. BTW: W therapist does not believe in MLC and my W loves him. At the end of the night she hugged me and said she had a nice time. I said I did too and we gave each other a quick kiss and she was off. I need to get back to reading DR as it’s hard not to tell her how beautiful she is and how much I still love her…. I have been in contact with the school counselors for the kids and will meet with the counselors later in the week, to discuss what else I need to do for them. They are pretty angry and scared.