Just found out wife filed

[RobD70]

He wasn't arrested but the S in now going to be living with the W and he's happy about it.

Oddly enough I'm relieved that she did this. I'm don't feel bad at all :). I'm a bit surprised by my own reaction.

Went to the C. See if I can remember what she said.

W had the OM with her last week, the C wasn't that impressed and the W even said she thought the C like me more than the OM lol.

The W feels so guilty about me that it was one of the reasons she went to the OM, to get away from the guilt. That makes no sense to me.

I'm sure the OM had a big hand in her filing since it was last week and all.

The W wants to talk to me about day to day stuff but is afraid to because she thinks it leads me on. She asked the C if she should anyway or not.

The C doesn't think the OM is putting in both feet. I guess she leaving him twice and still has feelings for me has made him cautious.

I have anger issues in which I have trouble being/showing anger. She wanted me to break down and start throwing things. We did touch on how I was intimidated by the OM and that I worked so hard to be the man my W wanted and she doesn't want it.

My W is so screwed up in the head now that I don't want anything to do with her. To be honest, right now I do not want her back. I don't want to see or hear from her and this could not be over sooner. I'm not sure I will ever forgive her for being with the OM anyway, she would have to do a lot of work and I don't think she can.

After I thanked her for filing, this is what she said:

"All I filed was the Original Petition. It doesn't specify who's taking what or anything like that. There's nothing for you to sign at this point. It's basically just putting the courts on notice that we are contemplating divorce.

Can you even believe that John did that to Anthony?....." (there was more about Anthony but not important.

Listen how she tries to downplay what she did. You wonder why she even bothered then is it's not that big a deal lol. I'm guessing it's because either is was the OM's idea or she thinks I'm going to be hurt of freaked out about it. I find it annoying, I know exactly what it is, I almost did it myself a few times.

Anyway I'm not going to respond today and IF I do it will be about the boy.