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Re: We have made it to the other side 4 Valeria #1708101 02/02/09 11:23 PM
Joined: Apr 2006 Posts: 6,042 texas Y yellowrose OP Member
OP yellowrose Member Y Joined: Apr 2006 Posts: 6,042 texas	Hi Val!!! Thanks but I think we all deserve great things after what we all have been through! My H was in such a silly mood all weekend and I enjoyed every minute of it. My S was in Dallas with some friends and my H actually ran around the house naked!!! What a sight!!! He is such a goof!!! Y

Re: We have made it to the other side 4 Truelove #1708103 02/02/09 11:25 PM
Joined: Apr 2006 Posts: 6,042 texas Y yellowrose OP Member
OP yellowrose Member Y Joined: Apr 2006 Posts: 6,042 texas	TL Thanks for stopping by!!! We had a nice time at dinner. My H starts his shift on Friday, I can't wait! I hope your weekend was fantastic! Y

Re: We have made it to the other side 4 yellowrose #1708911 02/03/09 07:35 PM
Joined: Dec 2005 Posts: 3,334 T Truelove Member
Truelove Member T Joined: Dec 2005 Posts: 3,334	Hi YR, Great to hear you had a nice time with H. My week-end was quite good as well and I had a lovely day today. Have a good week and take care.

Re: We have made it to the other side 4 Truelove #1708972 02/03/09 08:37 PM
Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 1,049 Pacific Northwest (WA) S sandycay Member
sandycay Member S Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 1,049 Pacific Northwest (WA)	There's always something funny about naked men running... oh yea the flip flop, flip flop Glad to read your post... Silent Cheerleader turned me to them but I don't know how to reference further back ones. I am at about 8 months of reconciling and we hit a bit of a rough patch last week... so I am not really sure where we are. M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too

Re: We have made it to the other side 4 sandycay #1709082 02/03/09 10:22 PM
Joined: Apr 2006 Posts: 6,042 texas Y yellowrose OP Member
OP yellowrose Member Y Joined: Apr 2006 Posts: 6,042 texas	Sandycay It was really funny to see him run around! LOL We had a few rough patches too. Don't let that discourage you. Talk things out. My other threads are in the MLC archives. Y

Re: We have made it to the other side 4 sandycay #1709289 02/04/09 01:45 AM
Joined: Apr 2005 Posts: 9,678 Somewhere over the rainbow B brandnewday Member
brandnewday Member B Joined: Apr 2005 Posts: 9,678 Somewhere over the rainbow	Sandycay, Piecing takes time and patience. Rough patches are OK....you are learning new ways to communicate with one another, don't be discouraged. (((hugs))) There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.

Re: We have made it to the other side 4 yellowrose #1711792 02/07/09 12:16 AM
Joined: Dec 2005 Posts: 3,334 T Truelove Member
Truelove Member T Joined: Dec 2005 Posts: 3,334	Hi YR, I wish you a lovely week-end. And no more running around naked - it is too cold at this time of year - LOL. Take care.

Re: We have made it to the other side 4 yellowrose #1712693 02/09/09 02:49 AM
Joined: Jun 2008 Posts: 1,125 WA S Silent Chrleader Member
Silent Chrleader Member S Joined: Jun 2008 Posts: 1,125 WA	Hey, YR (& Snodderly if your watching), If either or both of you get a chance to stop over on my thread, I'd sure appreciate it. I could sure use your voice of wisdom. I had some backsliding recently, but am doing better about that now, but I am feeling so discouraged and hopeless about my whole sitch. S17 is pushing every limit we set, and H had now "dropped" him. So, now there is really nothing to draw him back to me, and virtually no opportunity for him to see me in a good light. And, his memories (which he has re-created) aren't going to to bring him to miss me. H and I do have a session together this Wednesday, and I don't really know what to expect. He says he doesn't see the need to discuss more about S17, so I don't know......this session was prompted by a meltdown I had last week, but I am surprised he is keeping it after everything that has happened since then. I'm afraid whatever it is, is not going to be good. Anyway, thanks for your time.... [[hugs]] TJ Me45,H49 D24,S18 M26,T28 Bomb 3/19/08 Sep 6/23/08 EA/PA with Secretary 2007-8 3/2009 H moved in w/OW2 7/2009 Let him go w/Love. 8/2009 Legally Sep'd

Re: We have made it to the other side 4 Silent Chrleader #1714530 02/11/09 02:57 PM
Joined: Oct 2007 Posts: 1,846 Ohio T Treese Member
Treese Member T Joined: Oct 2007 Posts: 1,846 Ohio	HI MOM!!! Just stopping by to say Hi...Hope you and yours are well... Hey, by the way did your H ever serve you with D papers? A friend got served with papers and it hit home....mine could very well be next...just curious... Treese Treese H 49 M 45 D 23, D17, S12 M 25 T 31 01/07 OW H at my door w/proof Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07 Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass, Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9 11/08 pos.paternity

Re: We have made it to the other side 4 Treese #1714577 02/11/09 04:01 PM
Joined: Apr 2006 Posts: 6,042 texas Y yellowrose OP Member
OP yellowrose Member Y Joined: Apr 2006 Posts: 6,042 texas	Treese No my H didn't ever serve me. I know that he was calling around to alot of lawyers but that was it. He threatened me continuously. I was scared too. Y

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