Oh .... and the saga continues .... (Michelle why did you have to be right)!!!!
So I went to the courthouse to their free legal clinic for help/advise. It seems my H didn't get an extension & that I should not have been served!!! Yes, his 90 days had run out. So now the judge will have to decide if this can proceed. ugh!! I filed my response/counter claim & filed for a 90 day extension. Just in case we cannot get this done (the paperwork) by the 13th. As the Pro se clerk said my H really messed things up ..... yep, I know!!!! I sent my H an email about this (well some of this, the important stuff & not that he REALLY messed up). I sure hope he can work w/me on this now ..... and I even asked him if we could.
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)
Hey Michelle, I'm surprised you didn't LMAO - again
Hey Julia, I'm doing good. Really, if my H would have gotten it right - I would have been surprised .... amazed actually!! All you can do is laugh if off .... that's life sometimes
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)
Well, a brief update .... on Friday I went to the courthouse to see their Pro Se clerk. It seems my H didn't file an extension & I shouldn't have been served D papers!! The clerk said my H created quite a mess, cuz now a judge will have to decide if this will proceed. Still, I filed my response & filed for a 90 day extension (I believe that will give us more time to get paperwork in if needed). My H did email me back, he's still in Malasia! I'm going to hire a Pro Se clerk, to make sure this is done right!! Friday, just continued to be crazy & ended with me, going through the bank drive through & hitting part of it!! I did a nice job damaging my car!!! Ouch x 1!!!!
Then on Sunday, I fell down about 10 stairs in my house. Ouch x 2!!! Being a hearty German, I didn't break anything, but have some huge bruises in various places. Yep, I pretty much rode down the stairs on my bum ...... and have a huge bruise there!!! Such an impressive colorful bruise ... and no one to show!!!! LOL
On Saturday MF1 called to see if I was doing anything. (Nope, I was staying in). He also called to apologize for MF2, from the last time we all went out. It seems that during the evening MF2 was telling MF1, that M3 & I were acting like lovers! What....!!!!! (I wish!!!) We were just having a good time chatting & making the most of the evening. Hhhhmmmm .... interesting though. I think he was jealous we were having a good time.
So I called M3 on Sunday, no answer so I left a message. I called him again tonight, to see if he wanted to go to dinner sometime or a drink - again left a message. Ok, now .... I'm feeling like some stalker!! Well, he rang me back & apologized, it seems he had cell problems & had food poisoning yesterday. (Poor boy). Our chat was brief, as he had other things to get done - but would call tomorrow.
Still .... I feel like a stalker .... why is that .... used to silence & rejection - I suppose??? Have been taught now ... not to persue ..... even a friendship ..... Maybe just mixed signals?? Ack .... who knows anymore .....
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)
oooh, you take care of yourself missy!!!! I hope you are ok!
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So I called M3 on Sunday, no answer so I left a message. I called him again tonight, to see if he wanted to go to dinner sometime or a drink - again left a message. Ok, now .... I'm feeling like some stalker!! Well, he rang me back & apologized, it seems he had cell problems & had food poisoning yesterday. (Poor boy). Our chat was brief, as he had other things to get done - but would call tomorrow.
Still .... I feel like a stalker .... why is that .... used to silence & rejection - I suppose??? Have been taught now ... not to persue ..... even a friendship ..... Maybe just mixed signals?? Ack .... who knows anymore .....
I know these feelings well. Just remember when you are not pursuing or being reticent it is because the WAS has negative feelings towards you the new person has positive feelings towards you, therefore they *want* to hear from you, hearing from you would be exciting and fun because they are interested in you. They like you for yourself, you don't have to break any bad habits because there are none to break, it is a fresh relationship. Go for it!!!! This will be great for your confidence.
