Just spoke with my DB coach and she said to let my wife know that the OM W called and tell her how it hurts me only if my W asks me how I feel about it. As my DB said. Don't look for trouble. See how my W handles it. So for now I will play it cool and go from there. One thing I do know is that I can't be with someone if I have a constant reminder of the hurt. That's no way of healing and moving on with my M. Going to use the tools I have been given. Hope to have good news later today.
