Thank you both. K, What you say about Christ is very true. His sacrifice and grace is sufficient. I really don't have a problem forgiving anything my W has done; I understand that we all make mistakes and none of us are perfect. My W, on the other hand, has always had a difficult time forgiving. This by her own admission. She says she doesn't understand forgiveness. I believe that God allows things in our lives for a reason, and I believe that one of the reasons my W is in this place is a lack of forgiveness in her heart, and the bible says we are forgiven the same way we forgive others. This is dangerous for her spiritually, and I know God wants her to see that. For me, I believe that God wants me to know that He alone is sufficient for me--that's not to say that he wants me alone, but he wants me to love him more than anything else can even come close. I need to find my joy in him alone right now. My W is no longer there for me, but I need to remember that He is and that He loves me unconditionally. I'm working on it...
