HMMM? I dunno. I see what you are saying. He will let me now explain things to him. he did not used to. I see it will be long. I have faith though. I read PM almost 3 yrs ago . And now I am open to understanding it more. I have /had not really done much for myself. OUCH~!~!~ I was looking for a way to fix him , like he is doing with me.
I do know from reading PM that hubby and I are on the right path so far.
Yes he still has to stop waling around feeling right.
i did say this ..
even when I amke you feel delicious and we have great sex and I give my all if you do not get "happy" miraculously ? What then?
You have given me much to think of.
Yes I had this thought when we vacationed ithis Christmas. OMG he is NMMNG under it all.
Thanks Lucky...
and yes he is too nice at times and yet then thinks that by being so nice it erases all the bad. *sigh*
yes I have tried too hard and now I am working on me. This is causing things to shift. I am no longer actively trying to fix him IT wont work that way. yes he has to be on board, but if he sees the rules to my game have changed and I stay consistent?
he has to change.. of he has to find another playmate who plays by his rules alone. If he wants to keep "playing" with me he follows or loses? he is "forced" to change. You will read this later in PM.
Make sense? I am terrible at explaining my self sometimes/
