Sorry everyone for not responding sooner. My power supply went out on my pc and it took a couple of days for me to fix it. I'm back now. Just now the OM W called and said she is coming over to see my W. My W is painting at our new house and doesn't know this. So what should I do? I guess I'm going to say to her what my DB coach said I should say. That it hurts me and that's not alright. She's coming over because they are friends and she is an idiot for not being mad at her H. She believes the texting was ok and that's all it was. Dirty texting between two people. Things have gotten better and my W's not as mad at me as she was, but I tried to get a little and she SHUT me down. I got a little hurt but I figured what the Hell I'll try anyway. No, I haven't given up and haven't talked with my DB coach. I feel like I need to use the tools she gave me to work on this by myself for awhile and go from there. I'm trying to calm down because I don't want the OM W seeing our new home and thinking everything is ok with me. Because its not. I will get your responses long after the fact I tell her that it hurts me and hopefully she understands. By the time the OM W shows up I'll be at work and my W will be getting ready to go to work. If you would like to send scripture I'm all for it. It will help. Thanks to all of you for caring.
