Step 1: If she is going to make fun of your efforts to work on your R, you should stop posting in her presence. Either ask her not to read these forums, or post when she is not around.
She may be laughing, but what she doesn't realize is that she stands to benefit from the advice you receive here. If she thinks it is so pointless, ask her not to be involved in it for now.
Oh and stick around please. Based on what you have posted so far, you stand to benefit a great deal from the experienced people on these boards.
Step 2: Get "The Divorce Remedy" and read it.
Spellfire aka Mike
"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A
