What does that matter. What matter's is how you both feel about it and how you both deal with. For goodness sakes don't get into the "were we, weren't we" on a break scenario - it's just a pointless waste. If your W's actions have hurt you then you need to find a way to deal with that hurt.

It's about having lost the exclusivity in your R, not about being on a break.

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength