Shawn, for what it's worth, I don't think it's a good idea for you to be doing this with your wife looking over your shoulder. If she's reading this, you're giving her your gameplan dude. Not a good strategy in any walk of life. I'll repeat it again... you can't change Amber! Work on yourself.
Me: 32, Wife: 22 Son: 2 Married: 2 years Separated: January 5th 2009
Sometimes you have to become lost before you can find yourself.
