oooh, you take care of yourself missy!!!! I hope you are ok!
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So I called M3 on Sunday, no answer so I left a message. I called him again tonight, to see if he wanted to go to dinner sometime or a drink - again left a message. Ok, now .... I'm feeling like some stalker!! Well, he rang me back & apologized, it seems he had cell problems & had food poisoning yesterday. (Poor boy). Our chat was brief, as he had other things to get done - but would call tomorrow.
Still .... I feel like a stalker .... why is that .... used to silence & rejection - I suppose??? Have been taught now ... not to persue ..... even a friendship ..... Maybe just mixed signals?? Ack .... who knows anymore .....
I know these feelings well. Just remember when you are not pursuing or being reticent it is because the WAS has negative feelings towards you the new person has positive feelings towards you, therefore they *want* to hear from you, hearing from you would be exciting and fun because they are interested in you. They like you for yourself, you don't have to break any bad habits because there are none to break, it is a fresh relationship. Go for it!!!! This will be great for your confidence.
