So it is just you, Shawn, posting here? And she can read it?

To be very blunt, if I were her and read that you think that are doing nothing wrong, I would be very pi$$ed. Start focusing on yourself, listen to and validate what she says. There is not one human being in this world who is never wrong or does not make a mistake. And you are human, right?

Stop talking negatively about her, because it is unhealthy and causes more resentments in you (and her probably as well). Stop focusing on the past and look at every day as a new start. Do it just for yourself (and your kids), to feel better about yourself. Ignore what she says or does.

AN


M43 W45, M17
S9 D6
Bomb: 11/11/08
EA: 10/26-12/31/08 ?
Retrouvaille: 2/13-2/15/09
Healed, but still heading for D
My situation