Murky, I do hope you'll post and share your experience. Reading other's experiences has helped me so much. It lets us know we are all in the same boat. Unbelievable how many people are going through the same thing. I hope things improve for you.
Pearl, how did convo with ex go?
I still have not talked to my H other than to tell him we needed to separate. I think he's forming a strategy since now we're going to be separated, things are going to change a lot for him.
I agree with you, it is better to go through the first then getting singed bit by bit. My mother's analogy was to compare it to a swift amputation vs. losing a limb slowly to gangrene.
Either way, it sucks. I cannot believe how much of my trust this man has shattered.
