Since money is an issue I would put it in black and white what it takes to run your household as well as what income there is to offset the expenses. I would guess you are going in the hole every month. Let H see the dilema. It doesn't mean he will do anything different but it does show the situation without dispute. Your H is 'awake' enough to get the facts.
There is a lot in the news in the last week about how much it costs to raise a child. Be thankful you don't have 6 at home and 8 more joining the party!
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
