No more fighting, period. If she says the sky is yellow say "Yea it does look yellow today". If she says you are a jerk and don't help around the house (even though you do) so "I understand why you think that, I haven't been all that nice lately and I do need to do more around this place". Agree with everything she says and that will help stop her anger towards you. It's not about right or wrong, it's about her feelings (not yours).

If you find yourself about to argue, remember to agree with anything she says or get out of there before you say/do something.

Don't pressure her for anything (sex, going to an IC, getting on meds, ect) She will resist anything you say. Avoid asking any more R questions, she'll see that as a form of pressure as well. Let her bring things up.

Last edited by RobD70; 02/03/09 03:56 PM.
Me:38
W:40
Bomb/EA 03/08
Recon twice
1/09 W files for D
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