Well, me personally, I'm of the differing opinion, the issues are getting out in the open instead of bottled up, you know? As my sitch deteriorated, communication became less and less which really brought things to a head.
My mother was the same way after my father 'walked out', and taught myself and my sister to be unreliant of the opposite sex.
Spellfire hit my exact thoughts reading your post in the thread about the session, you may think it didn't go well, but again, I see the fact that she's venting as such, she's telling you something. What you need to do si continue to work on yourself and a way to assure her that your 180*s are for real and you won't faulter back to your old ways.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11