New note from my lawyer--mediation is scheduled in 2 weeks, I need to get a ton of paperwork together--and come up with $400 for the mediator's fee! It might as well be $4000--I truly don't have it. I advised my lawyer of that, so we'll see what happens next.
The other thing is that I keep getting collection calls for bills that H is supposed to be paying. The latest said that if they didn't receive payment by the 17th they will take me to court.
D12 has needed glasses since the beginning of the school year. Every time I think I have a way to pay for them, there's another crisis, or we have snow days and I don't get paid. H yells at me to get another job--if I "can't support my daughter I should not have primary custody!!" Well, duh--the reason I can't support her is because the dufus took off with the pagan princess and left me so deep in debt I'll never catch up.
Things should be final in mid-April. And how odd--it will be such a relief.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012
