MG, do you have any knowledge of what your H's total debt is? putting everything on charge has to be adding up fast.

I am much in the same spot as you regarding money and should I or shouldn't help with my H's financial responsibilties. I try not to get bitter about the fact that he has all this debt and why he has it and the single biggest thing is his mismanagement of his finances.
It wasn't that long ago that H was living it up with his money while I struggled to pay my monthly bills. It caught up with him and he is in big trouble. The biggest thing that holds me back from jumping in to help him is that I have not seen any change in his financial behavior to correct his problem. If H got a bail out, he would be right back in the same spot because he has not changed how he deals with bills and money.

Just as your H is in a world of financial hurt, he has not changed a thing about how he should be dealing with it. Let him harp on you but I think then there is nothing wrong with you suggesting he should get off his butt and be a productive member of the world again. How long does his unemployment income last?
I am also sorry that he talked you into quitting your job. Even a small income is better than no income unless you're qualifying for financial assistance.
You have probably said this already but does your H know how much $$ it takes to run the house?
((MG))

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