I told her, If you want to D, YOU need to file for it. Secondly, there better be no one else before the ink dries... She talked about how she hasn't had time to think about this as she works all day and then has to come home to be a mom (s-11)... Her feelings are the same, she doesn't want to go over them again. She doesn't want to work on the R. There is no one else and she isn't interested in some one else... I asked about separating for a time, she didn't know if it would help, she'd thought about it.
I'll let it blow over for a few days. She knows we're house poor right now and separation would make it even tighter... Do you know how tough it is to have to sleep next to her. I haven't slept all night since ???