im sorry i didnt want to come across as bashing but i have no idea like i said im wrong on everything... even at the problems im seeing and the things i feel. i have read so much over the past few yrs and nothing seems to work....if i try to get her involved then everybody else becomes wrong too. i dont drink or do drugs i dont leave the house for social activity with out her or the kids. i do help around the house as well as bring gifts of affection home. i do love my wife but talking to her is impossable anymore.
