D'day,

We had a counseling session last nite. Here is the link where I recap all the gory details on my other thread.

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1702221&page=1&fpart=11

Long story short, I'm worried that counseling is making things worse. She really talking about her anger/pain and concerns of being into the cycle like her mom and dad (they are divorced - he cheated on her). It's really ingrained in her to not have to rely on a man to make her a whole person. And she thinks her mom was weak for taking him back a few times, just to have him leave again.

Not good at all


Me 41
WAW 36
S 3&7
M 10 yrs
W files D 1/9/09
W moves out 4/18
Lost job 6/15
New job 7/27
Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!)
Confronted 8/11
Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11
Lost Job 11/13