One of the few that hasn't been told by his wife that she wants out. That's refreshing.
First suggestion: Get the divorce remedy, read through it, and try to put some things into practice. Perhaps get "The Five Love Languages" by Gary Chapman.
Second suggestion: The most important thing about divorce busting is to realize that it starts with you. What you wrote was entirely focused on what you wife is either doing wrong (nagging, being angry, getting physical) or not doing right (isn't having sex, going to counseling). If you look at her failings, you really won't get anywhere. Those are her issues. Want to help navigate those? Then do something different. Look at how you have been interacting and change it. There are things you are doing wrong; work to correct them. It's up to you because you are the one interested in change. So what can you do differently?
You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with. Dr. Wayne Dyer
