What happened to the mediator is that once she gave us the figures that she thought were reasonable, it effectively cut STBXs payments by $1400/month, so of course she wouldn't agree. I will contact my attorney when I fell like it, and see if he can work with her lawyer to reach a settlement. I'm not inclined to let her off easy. I've had it!
Yes, I've come a long way from Iraq, not just the 7000 mile distance either.