Jeff, I think you need to stick to the agreed upon schedule. that way everyone can plan, the kids have a routine that they can count on, and you can live your OWN life.
I'm not saying that there couldn't be times when you could be flexible; but have that agreement written up where she has every other weekend. You want the agreement to NOT be flexible.
That's just my $.02.
Just like my wife, she cycles in the amount of time that she wants with the kids. So if you're agreement is written that you'll let her have the kids upon request; you'll always be a slave to her whims. It's time to let go of that. Let her suffer the consequences of her behavior and grow up. You and I have been too nice in dealing with our wayward spouses. So I'm writing this as much for me as I am for you.
