hi...my name is shawn and boy do we have some problems....i dont even know where to start. we have been together going on 14 yrs now and things are starting to get rocky.. communication is down sex is down united front with kids is down.. there just doesent seem to be anything going right and i dont know what to do.. i feel like everything i say is wrong or at least im told that anyway...and i mean everything!! to the point that if i say something is black she will come back with its really dark grey or the like. we argue about everything,and if amber gets backed into a corner with truth or logic she wigs and tries to get physical....i have never hit my wife but i will grab her and sit her down..she doesent mind screaming at me in front of the kids. as far as sex....i am the only one to say or try to do anything. she will set and tell me she doesent ever have any urges or fantasy at all.. im just starting to think she just doesent want me around..but when i ask her about it (which usually leads to another fight) she says that is not the case. she wont agree to councel (doesent want to be told shes wrong or let me have a word in) ive even gone through thinking bipoler or hormonal but getting her to a doc is out of the question too i just dont know what to do anymore... help please
