Cinco: Just thinking. For your "fantasy day," try to make it about HER, not about you, not about getting sex. I know it will be your Birthday, but I think it would be amazing if you made your day about making your woman happy. She would so love that. And, I bet you will have a "happy" day. How can you lose?
Example: What does she love? What if you did something with her that she absolutely loves during the day. Go see something beautiful (museum, nature, animals at the zoo, something she really enjoys) or go get a massage together if that's her thing. Go to her favorite restaurant. Take a walk at her favorite place.
How significant that would be, to make your Birthday about loving your wife.
You can go to your favorite restaurant and do your things any day of the week. Don't feel like you're giving anything up!
