Well, She didn't try to call all weekend so I didn't get a chance to ignore her, but she did call sunday afternoon. She had her mother come over and clear out some shelving units that we are giving her brother. While she was there my wife called and my mother in law picked up. They chatted and my wife asked to talk to me My wife asked how my weekend was and I told her it was good but I didn't ask her how her weekend was, but made cheery small talk then the conversation ended with her wanting to talk to her mother again. Her mother later told me that my wife thought that I was mad at her. I was cheerful on the phone but she must be sensitive because she knows she is being bad.
Anyway today she tried calling and I didn't pick up I eventually answered one of her texts. She came home after work and went out to go spinning. I went to the gym. I wasn't home when she got home because I had to run out and get some things, when I got home she asked me where I went I just said the truth saying that I went out to pick some things up, funny thing is she didn't believe me saying that I was being vague but in fact it was the truth. I am not sure what is going through her mind but I guess she is wondering what I am up to because I don't respond to her every call and I don't tell her everything.
She tells me where she is going if it is harmless but is vague when it's inappropriate.
Tomorrow I am going to my cousins for dinner but will just say I am going out.
This time I didn't speak directly to the ski weekend because from the phone call and me not talking about the weekend she got the hint that I didn't approve by her response to her mother. I will continue to be cheerful and pleasant but mysterious. I hope that someday she will come out of the fog.
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June 08 I don't want to be married it's not you it's me
