Appreciate your candor Carlos, and your insights V V. In some ways your words frighten me since they touch on some questions that may always remain...have we made the right choice? What if we had taken the other path? What if?
Sort of related...I saw something about a couple who div and had kids. They decided to actually have a divorce ritual with their family and closest folks to announce the end of their m, and the beginning of living separately always respecting the fact that the other was the parent of their children; to put their children first, their own truth second and to forgive and stop all the blame.
It sounded pretty weird, but maybe isn't so crazy after all. I wonder about things like that. Parting with some type of closure, or at least...a spoken peace. If nothing else, for the kids.
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M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
